Resilient
Posted on 23. Jan, 2010 by Tobias in Love, Random Thoughts
It’s not the first time that I’ve mentioned this, but somehow my optimism allows me to be more resilient than most individuals. Despite being hurt time and again, I bounce back. It’s been about a month now and I’ve already become infatuated with someone, even though I don’t even know this person too well. It’s certainly an amazing feeling and I’m glad that I can feel it again. I do realize though that infatuation leads to vulnerability; I know first-hand after it took me 6 months to get over someone I had only went on a date with once. The mind is an amazing object; it shapes our impressions of the people we meet and often tends to overexaggerate, giving them the benefit of the doubt. The mysteriousness of not knowing much about them also adds fuel to the situation. I realize this but I’d rather have hope even if it comes at the high cost of dissapointment. With each person, there’s a small chance that something great may come out of it.
I’m happy 
Inge
Jan 23rd, 2010
Happy for you.
Lydia
Jan 23rd, 2010
Congrats!
It’s been 9 months now since my break up. I am still not over him and I don’t want to touch relationship or any kind of romantic feelings now. You are truly stronger than me =)